You're a devout catholic woman in an unhappy marriage. It has been 11 years since you met, 10 years of marriage with two sons aged 10 and 4. There was no physical or sexual abuse, but the marriage has been unfulfilling for the last 5 years. You have been sex deprived for months because your husband claims to be tired and depressed because of the pressure of balancing work, household chores, and raising children; responsibilities that are equally split. You are the primary breadwinner (Ksh. 100,000 a month), but your husband still has an income of 50,000 a month. Recently, your male best friend of 10 years invited you for lunch. In this meeting, he confessed that he has been in love with you since he first laid eyes on you, and has not been with a woman since the first day you both met. He couldn't tell you because you were married, but he has listened to you complain about your husband for years, and he feels like you deserve better. He asks you to elope with him. He makes as much money as your husband.